Glitter

She who leaves a trail of glitter is never forgotten.
~Unknown

In my opinion the most shiniest trail of glitter someone can leave, are peace and love.

Glitter

Body:
Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair: “”D!va”” Hair “Flora” (Type A)(Brown diamond)

Clothes:
Top:  [NV] Loose Shirt -Golden Peace-
Pants: [Fuck-Lish] Glamour Leggings

Accessories:
Tattoos: Tabou Irresistible:: Emo Little Heart tattoo  – Suicide Dollz Event
Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow – Skin Fair 2014
Piercings:  C h a r y . – Horizontal Body Horns (BLACK) – The Big Show
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics
Ring: :Diamante: Kiss & Hate Ring Gachas –  Luck of the Irish Event

Best Find

A successful man is one
who makes more money
than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one
who can find such a man.
~Tina Turner

Best Find

With all the events happening currently, I hope you all are successful in finding such a man! I had the opportunity to go have a nosey at the Skin Fair, which opens 14 March 2014 and found this awesome skin from YS&YS. It takes a lot for me to change skins, but I really just fell in love with this one.

Best Find

Remember to also go to the Whore Couture fair, and try your luck with at the Luck of the Irish Gacha event that starts soon.

Best Find

Body:
Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Rocky –  variety

Clothes:
Top: -SSW- Tee Swag! (part of an oufit) –  Whore Couture
Pants: D-Style – Simone Pants Phat Azz – Whore Couture
Shoes: Revanche Pain & Pleasure Skully Heels Black – Whore Couture

Accessories:
Tattoos:  Corvus – Human Neck Tattoo
Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Gloves: S.L.A.D Lace Gloves
Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow – Skin Fair 2014
Belly Chain:  BELLY-CHAIN DSP PLATINUM     -RYCA
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics

Clutch

Just a quick blog to show you this clutch from SNAP and the ring Cae, Royal, both available from the Whore Couture Fair. Happy Shopping!

Clutch

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: [INK] Hair BPPO:: Blonde 

Accessories:
Clutch: SNAP // Dolly Clutch // Black – Whore Couture Exclusive
Ring: Cae :: Royal :: Collection [bagged]  – Whore Couture
Tattoo: [White~Widow] Cloud Atlas  – Whore Couture
Nails: KOSH – Slink Applier METAL & MATTE FINGERNAILS #1

Souvenirs

And scars are souvenirs you never lose
The past is never far
Did you lose yourself somewhere out there?
Did you get to be a star?
And don’t it make you sad to know that life
Is more than who we are
~Goo Goo Dolls – Name

Whore Couture

Whore Couture

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: [INK] Hair BPPO:: Blonde 

Clothes:
Dress: SNAP // Dolly Dress // Black – Whore Couture Exclusive
Shoes: ::DirtyMind:: Desire Platform Sandals – Black – Whore Couture

Accessories:
Tattoos: :Little Pricks: In time arm tattoo,  Corvus – Human Neck Tattoo and Tenjin – A Little Fierce Tattoo
Nails: #adored – fishnet polish hands/feet {slink avatar enhancement} – Whore Couture 
Bracelets and Armband: *MUKA* Armband Love  and *MUKA* Cuff Love – Whore Couture
Ring: O.M.E.N – Ring of Passion – Black
Eyeliner: #adored – metallic liners – Whore Couture 
Lipstick: [M]indbury – Lipstick Line – Whore Couture 

Pose:
MODEL POSES – Britt 2
MODEL POSES – Aeris 3

Friendships and Expectations

I have so much on my heart today, but to get all the thoughts structured so it’s understandable might prove difficult.

Friendships and expectations. Do they go hand in hand? Can friendships exist without expectations? When you don’t expect anything from your friend, is that not just an acquaintance? There is a saying, if something is free, its not worth anything. So if there is no expectation, is there really a friendship?

There is not a lot of things I hate in life, I don’t bother poisoning myself, but I do hate the term “fake friends”. A friend is never fake. If the person does not live up to your expectation, it doesn’t make them fake, it makes them not your friend, even if you are under the misconception that they were. They may just have other priorities.

Friends and Expectations

A friend of mine has been going through a tough time and said only a handful of people stood by him during this time, so he may not return to SL as he doesn’t see the point. Does this make my friend a “fake friend” to the handful that stood by him, me included? Or are the other 100s who never Im’ed him, are they the “fake friends”? Or was my expectation of our friendship too high and his, too high of the other 100s.

Friendship is, I think, a constant toss up of knowing when to have expectations and when not.  I have been feeling unimportant to another friend and was about to complain about it, when I realized there are also people I was neglecting. I know friendship is not always about what you get back, but maybe I was expecting too much from this friendship and I was just as guilty of not giving as much to other friendships. Complaining would make me a hypocrite but it does mean I need to work harder on friendships that work harder for me, and let those go that don’t.  That almost sound selfish, but why put energy towards something and it’s not going anywhere, while other people put energy towards you and could become your greatest friend.

Regroup, refocus. One thing I have learned and keep learning is, a friend to all is a friend to none and peace begin where expectations end, so focus on those friendships that focus on you and have peace about the other quintessences who where never your friend anyway.

Friends and Expectations

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Delta –  browns

Clothes:
Jacket: .: LIKE DESIGN :. Rebekah Jacket With Tank Black White (I did not wear the tank)
Top: [BOOB-LiSH] Nettop – Mario Star
Pants: [Moyet]*High Waist Leggings** – Suicide Dollz Event
Shoes: _CandyDoll_ Newell Heels Black (FEET NOT INCLUDED)

Accessories:
Eyes: #adored – dream eyes – glacier  – Whore Couture Exclusive
Nails: #adored – fishnet polish hands/feet {slink avatar enhancement} – Whore Couture Exclusive
Bracelets: dl:: Emo Queen Perfect Hands
Earrings: ::DirtyMind:: The Plastique Earrings
Sunglasses: Izzie’s – Oversized Sunglasses (mesh)

Pose:
ILAYA Street Model 4 and 5

Choices

“We are our choices.”
~ Jean-Paul Sartre

This past month or so, I have been struggling with a choice. But today I don’t want to talk about my choice, it is still too personal, and really I do know the answer. I just don’t know if I’m a good enough person to do the right thing.

But on the topic of doing the right thing, recently (and it happened too many times before) I have seen so many choices made on Plurk and Facebook, many of them really negatively affecting others. So I’m wondering, am I, who also need to make a choice, am I in the position to judge people for those choices?

I know the saying, don’t judge someone until you have walked in their shoes. Even if you had a life from hell, does that give you the right to hack other people’s accounts? Does that give you the right to present yourself as something that you are not? Does this give you the right to hurt other people? When does it become pure spite? When am I allowed to judge?

This blog is a little all over the place, and does not really have a “take from” as Cao would have said. It’s just thoughts and a wish that people will become better at being good. And that brings me to Ghandi’s saying: Be the change you want to see in the world.

Yeah, the thing I was talking about in the first line.. was never a choice really, I always knew what to do.

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: Magika [03] Awake

Choices

Clothes:
Bodysuit: WickedNight – Moody Suit (Black) – Like Sales Room
Tattoo: PMS – Butterfly Medley Tattoo
Shoes: !(HR 2.0)! Lace PeepToe Wedge (noir)

Accessories:
Necklaces: KOSH– SANCTUARY NECKLACE  and (Yummy) Ball Chain Necklace – Ankh
Bracelets: dl:: Emo Queen Perfect Hands
Crown: dl:: Emo Queen

Pose:
.Mien. Troubled (1)

Coming Undone

Keep holding on
When my brain’s tickin’ like a bomb
Guess the black thoughts have come Again to get me
Sweet bitter words
Unlike nothing I have heard
Sing along mocking bird
You don’t affect me

That’s right
Deliverance of my heart
Please strike
Be deliberate
~Korn

Coming Undone

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – Bare face(honey)
Hair: Magika [03] Many

Clothes:
Top / Skirt / Tights: [Fuck-Lish] Ruffly
Pants: BabyDoll. Denim Shorty / Flag

Accessories:
Necklace and Bracelet: [MANDALA]pearl rain jewely set/silver/xstreet

Pose:
Juxtapose – Jack or Jill 3.0 Hunt  – Male Path

Luck?

“You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from.”
― Cormac McCarthyNo Country for Old Men

Final4 Finish5

Body:
Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair:  LNS Designs – Caprica – Soho Market

Clothes:
Top: Maimai – Vali Shirt – Indian Summer
Skirt: IAF Double Slit Pencil Skirt – With Appliers –Soho Market
Shoes: N-core Donna – FaMeshed

Accessories:
Belt: Earthstones – Sol Mix Belt
Face Piercings: Cute Poison – Agelast Piercing
Chest Piercings: .Pekka. Crushie Piercing, Rade Piercing
Tattoo: ..::TaTS // TaTToo Leg Melodrama Bird
Bracelet: Blushed – Red Eye Ring and Bracelet Gunmetal

A lot at stake

Like Design

Like design

Body:
Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair:  Magika [03] Many

Clothes:
Top: .: LIKE DESIGN :. Tansy Plaid Butterfly
Shorts: BabyDoll. Denim Shorty / Dk. Blue

Accessories:
Ankle chain: [sM] Tootsie Anklet Single – Cross [High Slink]
Necklace: KOSH– SANCTUARY NECKLACE -inverted-
Leg Tattoo:  *PerveTTe* [Tattoo] Lov Gun  – Like Sales Room
Hands and Feet Tattoo: PMS – Heart Slinks – The Thrift Shop

Pose:
Marukin – Vermillion

Say something

Say something

Body:
Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair:  Magika [03] Many

Clothes:
Top: *REIGN.– The Sweatshirt- Cross – The Thrift Shop
Leggings: .PANIK. Ovale Leggins – Black  – The Big Show

Accessories:
Booty chain: .ARISE. Booty Chain / Dark Silver – The Big Show