Success is not the key to happiness.
Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing, you will be
~Albert Schweitzer

A while go, when I left co-blogging on another blog, I didn’t feel like much of an success. I had to start from the bottom with this one, as I didn’t give it much attention as I was more focused on the combined blog. I was in constant competition with the other blog, until one day I realized that I was blogging for the wrong reasons. I started out the right way, but it somehow got into competition and I lost my real focus. Happiness. I can now say that it’s almost a year later, I have no idea how that other blog is doing, but I know I’m a success. Not because of fame or what other people think of me, but how I have grown and how I view my accomplishments. It’s still a huge work in progress. I still think I  get a lot of misses, but I’m happy 😀


Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair:  [elikatira] Shine – Brown 

Top:  Tee*fyAna Slouchy Satin Tank  and bra from Viomagic – old inventory item
Pants and Stockings:  ..::KnocKeRs::.. Hipstah Shorts –  The Hipster Fair
Shoes:  N-core Donna – new at FaMeshed

Necklaces:  MishMash Crucifix Necklace
Earrings: [EY:NO] Chained Cross Earrings
Ring:  ::LEONARD:: Love you
Tattoo:  PMS – I see you – includes Lola and Slink Appliers


The journey is what brings us happiness
not the destination

~Dan Millman



Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair: [Castellian] Jasmine Hair – Fades

Top:  *-GC-* Bandana Mesh Letter Top RARE  –  The Hipster Fair
Shorts: Legal Insanity – Brooklyn shorts – The Hipster Fair
Boots: [LW] Crushers<3  Platform Boots (Mesh) ***VALENTINE***

Necklaces: – .HoD. – Nothing’s Necklace v2 and – .HoD. – To Love & To Let Go Necklace Set
bracelets: .:* LOULOU&CO *:. – Bracelets :: CREPUSCULE ::
Tattoos: .:{KyS}:. Cuteness – – neck tattoos, >>> moloko <<< Love Lyrics Tattoo and Letis Tattoo :: Rose Rosary :: CH13001

It’s about the width, not the length.

I don’t want to get to the end of my life
and find that I lived just the length of it.
I want to have lived the width of it as well.
~Diane Ackerman

The past months, I have been catching myself complaining that I just don’t have enough hours in my day. That if I had more free time I would not be Jack of all Trades, Master of None, but actually be a master of something! Then I also realized that when I do have free time, I don’t use it productively, hence not mastering anything anyway. So maybe I must just change my attitude and not look at what still needs to be done as a negative, but as an opportunity to enjoy the ride.

So to this end, I have enrolled in another course to improve my Photoshop skills,  bought more English books to read and lean the language.  I planned three weekends away for the year. Invited more people to my friends lists, RL and SL. Applied for another job and re-looked at my exercise regime. Yoga here I come.. soon I’ll be able to reach my ears with my toes (not sure if I’ll break something) and I’m planning on being a very happy busy bee.. who cares about being a master! I’m going to live my life in the width and have fun along the way.

Who’s wine glass needs a top-up?

It's about the width, not the length


Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair: ^;^CaTwA^;^ Mesh Elsa Hair [5]

Dress/Bolero: *+S.F.+* Sweet “first date” Dress – Rose White –  The Hipster Fair
Stockings:  *REIGN.– Cozies- Mid Feet- White

Tattoo: +Half-Deer+ Faun Face Makeup (tintable) and B*FLY – Love Tattoo
Bracelet and Earrings:  MG – Bracelets and Earrings – Ritzy Shimmer Pearls

Mien. – {Halt} 5

Hipster Fair is coming soon!

Get ready for the Hipster Fair guys! It’s coming your way on the 21 January. Mark that date! In the mean time, here is a little preview from P H W O A R – C O U T U R E.

Hipster Fair is Coming soon

Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair: Magika [03] Sudden

Dress: *P.c* Callia Dress Exclusive @ Hipster Fair

Necklace: [MAGIC NOOK] Drizzle Necklace (Gold)
Earrings: [MAGIC NOOK] Drizzle Earrings (Gold)
Clutch: [MAGIC NOOK] Parisian Romance Clutch Bag (Earth) MESH
Ring: [MAGIC NOOK] Simple Ring (Gold)
Bangles: [EY:NO] Mess Bangles (gold)