We make a living by what we get,
but we make a life by what we give.
~ Winston Churchill

Just a short post to show you guys the newest release from Boob-lish. This gorgeous pants comes in so many varieties, there is one for anyone’s taste. My shoes are from Reign, who is currently making so many awesome shoes, you just can’t help buying almost getting them all. These are for the Slink high feet. My top is an old inventory item from Scrub, but I’ checked and it’s still available in store. So many events around at the moment, so happy shopping everyone!



Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin
Hair: *Dura-Boy*44 Dark 

Top: …::: Scrub :::… Just a Little Black
Pants: [BOOB-LiSH]  Leo Leggings

Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow
Piercings:  Hebenon Vial :HV: Alice [Metal]*Mesh*
Tattoo: Old inventory item.
Necklace:  :Fusion: Cord Necklace & Bracelet Set
Piercings on back: Old inventory Item from an Delirium outfit.
Arm Warmers: [Bijou]. h.AlloooWw Babe!


For to be free is not merely
to cast off one’s chains, but to
live in a way that respects
and enhances the freedom of others
~ Nelson Mandela


The Luck of the Irish Gacha event opened today and so run and go get these chains!


Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair: *X*plosion Nana Hair (Duos)

Top:  FnH Cassie Black Body & Bodice
Pants:  [LF] Smexy High Waist Pants Black –  Whore Couture
Shoes: . { tP } . Mainchick Platform Oynx –  Whore Couture

Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow – Skin Fair 2014
Piercings:  C h a r y . – Horizontal Body Horns (BLACK) – The Big Show
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics
Chains (Arms/Face/Neck/belly/leg): -DRD- luck of the irish GACHA items –  Luck of the Irish Event

Best Find

A successful man is one
who makes more money
than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one
who can find such a man.
~Tina Turner

Best Find

With all the events happening currently, I hope you all are successful in finding such a man! I had the opportunity to go have a nosey at the Skin Fair, which opens 14 March 2014 and found this awesome skin from YS&YS. It takes a lot for me to change skins, but I really just fell in love with this one.

Best Find

Remember to also go to the Whore Couture fair, and try your luck with at the Luck of the Irish Gacha event that starts soon.

Best Find

Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Rocky –  variety

Top: -SSW- Tee Swag! (part of an oufit) –  Whore Couture
Pants: D-Style – Simone Pants Phat Azz – Whore Couture
Shoes: Revanche Pain & Pleasure Skully Heels Black – Whore Couture

Tattoos:  Corvus – Human Neck Tattoo
Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Gloves: S.L.A.D Lace Gloves
Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow – Skin Fair 2014
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics


And scars are souvenirs you never lose
The past is never far
Did you lose yourself somewhere out there?
Did you get to be a star?
And don’t it make you sad to know that life
Is more than who we are
~Goo Goo Dolls – Name

Whore Couture

Whore Couture

Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: [INK] Hair BPPO:: Blonde 

Dress: SNAP // Dolly Dress // Black – Whore Couture Exclusive
Shoes: ::DirtyMind:: Desire Platform Sandals – Black – Whore Couture

Tattoos: :Little Pricks: In time arm tattoo,  Corvus – Human Neck Tattoo and Tenjin – A Little Fierce Tattoo
Nails: #adored – fishnet polish hands/feet {slink avatar enhancement} – Whore Couture 
Bracelets and Armband: *MUKA* Armband Love  and *MUKA* Cuff Love – Whore Couture
Ring: O.M.E.N – Ring of Passion – Black
Eyeliner: #adored – metallic liners – Whore Couture 
Lipstick: [M]indbury – Lipstick Line – Whore Couture 


Friendships and Expectations

I have so much on my heart today, but to get all the thoughts structured so it’s understandable might prove difficult.

Friendships and expectations. Do they go hand in hand? Can friendships exist without expectations? When you don’t expect anything from your friend, is that not just an acquaintance? There is a saying, if something is free, its not worth anything. So if there is no expectation, is there really a friendship?

There is not a lot of things I hate in life, I don’t bother poisoning myself, but I do hate the term “fake friends”. A friend is never fake. If the person does not live up to your expectation, it doesn’t make them fake, it makes them not your friend, even if you are under the misconception that they were. They may just have other priorities.

Friends and Expectations

A friend of mine has been going through a tough time and said only a handful of people stood by him during this time, so he may not return to SL as he doesn’t see the point. Does this make my friend a “fake friend” to the handful that stood by him, me included? Or are the other 100s who never Im’ed him, are they the “fake friends”? Or was my expectation of our friendship too high and his, too high of the other 100s.

Friendship is, I think, a constant toss up of knowing when to have expectations and when not.  I have been feeling unimportant to another friend and was about to complain about it, when I realized there are also people I was neglecting. I know friendship is not always about what you get back, but maybe I was expecting too much from this friendship and I was just as guilty of not giving as much to other friendships. Complaining would make me a hypocrite but it does mean I need to work harder on friendships that work harder for me, and let those go that don’t.  That almost sound selfish, but why put energy towards something and it’s not going anywhere, while other people put energy towards you and could become your greatest friend.

Regroup, refocus. One thing I have learned and keep learning is, a friend to all is a friend to none and peace begin where expectations end, so focus on those friendships that focus on you and have peace about the other quintessences who where never your friend anyway.

Friends and Expectations

Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Delta –  browns

Jacket: .: LIKE DESIGN :. Rebekah Jacket With Tank Black White (I did not wear the tank)
Top: [BOOB-LiSH] Nettop – Mario Star
Pants: [Moyet]*High Waist Leggings** – Suicide Dollz Event
Shoes: _CandyDoll_ Newell Heels Black (FEET NOT INCLUDED)

Eyes: #adored – dream eyes – glacier  – Whore Couture Exclusive
Nails: #adored – fishnet polish hands/feet {slink avatar enhancement} – Whore Couture Exclusive
Bracelets: dl:: Emo Queen Perfect Hands
Earrings: ::DirtyMind:: The Plastique Earrings
Sunglasses: Izzie’s – Oversized Sunglasses (mesh)

ILAYA Street Model 4 and 5


“We are our choices.”
~ Jean-Paul Sartre

This past month or so, I have been struggling with a choice. But today I don’t want to talk about my choice, it is still too personal, and really I do know the answer. I just don’t know if I’m a good enough person to do the right thing.

But on the topic of doing the right thing, recently (and it happened too many times before) I have seen so many choices made on Plurk and Facebook, many of them really negatively affecting others. So I’m wondering, am I, who also need to make a choice, am I in the position to judge people for those choices?

I know the saying, don’t judge someone until you have walked in their shoes. Even if you had a life from hell, does that give you the right to hack other people’s accounts? Does that give you the right to present yourself as something that you are not? Does this give you the right to hurt other people? When does it become pure spite? When am I allowed to judge?

This blog is a little all over the place, and does not really have a “take from” as Cao would have said. It’s just thoughts and a wish that people will become better at being good. And that brings me to Ghandi’s saying: Be the change you want to see in the world.

Yeah, the thing I was talking about in the first line.. was never a choice really, I always knew what to do.

Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: Magika [03] Awake


Bodysuit: WickedNight – Moody Suit (Black) – Like Sales Room
Tattoo: PMS – Butterfly Medley Tattoo
Shoes: !(HR 2.0)! Lace PeepToe Wedge (noir)

Necklaces: KOSH– SANCTUARY NECKLACE  and (Yummy) Ball Chain Necklace – Ankh
Bracelets: dl:: Emo Queen Perfect Hands
Crown: dl:: Emo Queen

.Mien. Troubled (1)


Success is not the key to happiness.
Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing, you will be
~Albert Schweitzer

A while go, when I left co-blogging on another blog, I didn’t feel like much of an success. I had to start from the bottom with this one, as I didn’t give it much attention as I was more focused on the combined blog. I was in constant competition with the other blog, until one day I realized that I was blogging for the wrong reasons. I started out the right way, but it somehow got into competition and I lost my real focus. Happiness. I can now say that it’s almost a year later, I have no idea how that other blog is doing, but I know I’m a success. Not because of fame or what other people think of me, but how I have grown and how I view my accomplishments. It’s still a huge work in progress. I still think I  get a lot of misses, but I’m happy 😀


Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair:  [elikatira] Shine – Brown 

Top:  Tee*fyAna Slouchy Satin Tank  and bra from Viomagic – old inventory item
Pants and Stockings:  ..::KnocKeRs::.. Hipstah Shorts –  The Hipster Fair
Shoes:  N-core Donna – new at FaMeshed

Necklaces:  MishMash Crucifix Necklace
Earrings: [EY:NO] Chained Cross Earrings
Ring:  ::LEONARD:: Love you
Tattoo:  PMS – I see you – includes Lola and Slink Appliers


The journey is what brings us happiness
not the destination

~Dan Millman



Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair: [Castellian] Jasmine Hair – Fades

Top:  *-GC-* Bandana Mesh Letter Top RARE  –  The Hipster Fair
Shorts: Legal Insanity – Brooklyn shorts – The Hipster Fair
Boots: [LW] Crushers<3  Platform Boots (Mesh) ***VALENTINE***

Necklaces: – .HoD. – Nothing’s Necklace v2 and – .HoD. – To Love & To Let Go Necklace Set
bracelets: .:* LOULOU&CO *:. – Bracelets :: CREPUSCULE ::
Tattoos: .:{KyS}:. Cuteness – – neck tattoos, >>> moloko <<< Love Lyrics Tattoo and Letis Tattoo :: Rose Rosary :: CH13001

So close…

Many of life’s failures
are people who did not realize
how close they were to success
when they gave up
~Thomas A Edison

So Close

So close

Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Gaia –  variety

Top: {.:OZI:.} BOW ULTRA CROP top- CREME   The Hipster Fair
Leggings: [Gang/Cold] Gara Leggings – Grave –  The Azz Show
Shoes: *Reign.– Majesty heels (Slink Medium)-  Black
Lips: Pink Acid Matte Pastry – Powder Tangerine –  Soho Market

Wetcat – Lavie 3 and Focus Poses – Winter