Feeling like a Diva

Nelson Mandela said “What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived. It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead.”

And I get on my high horse when people judge others. I  know I do too sometimes, but then I keep it to myself and move on. You can not judge someone unless you have walked in their shoes or if you are going to pay for their sins. Rather use that energy and live the right way and make a difference.

And that is my diva rant of the day.

Below, while I lean back looking like a diva, I’m wearing a corset and jewelry from Salt & Peper, shoes from BREATH and hair from the Hair Fair – no.match.

Have a great day!

Feeling like a Diva

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+ [ l u x u r i a n t ] / Slebrity Slection Street Sale

Hi Guys, just a quick post to show you a dress from + [ l u x u r i a n t ] available for this week only at the Slebrity Slection Street sale for only 50L! Go grab it!

SLebrity Street Sale

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Sasha
Hair: “”D!va”” Hair “Flora” 

Clothes:
Dress: + [ l u x ] Fallen Dress. *LOS* ( Pastel ) –  Slebrity Slection Street Sale
Shoes:  N-core SHAE

Accessories:
Piercings – collar bone: Ko’oeku – Vanda Piercing Mesh
Piercings – Chest: .Pekka. Rake Piercing (Chest) Unisex
Ring L: O.M.E.N – Ring of Passion – Black
Earrings: Forever Young :FY: Tear Drop Earrings (texture change)
Tattoo: Corvus : Human Neck Tattoo
Make-up: ::Modish:: [Ingrid Eyeshadow] Smokey set
Bracelets: Izzie’s – Angular Bangles

Hi, I am square.

Cao recently did a post on her blog on depression, click on the link, it’s an interesting read. The post touched me, not because I am depressed, far from it, but she also talked about fitting in. Trying to force a square into a circle. That is exactly how I see myself.

A few weeks ago I asked the question on Plurk what they do to fit in and most of the answers were nothing. They gave up trying to fit in, they don’t care about fitting in. In my opinion, I think you only think you don’t, but in some degree you always try to fit in. I am an introvert, I tried being more extroverted, I find it stressful. Does that make me weird? If not, why do people judge me because of it? They don’t? Yes, they do. I have friends that get angry because I don’t feel like tp’ing them the second I log on to SL or tp to them. I have friends that keeps posting on FB, if you don’t IM me, then you are not my friend and you don’t care. I do care. If I don’t have anything to say, I’m not going to IM you and most days I don’t have anything to say. I’m also fine with just IM’ing you. I don’t need to have your avatar standing a few feet from me every single day we are online together. Why? I don’t know. I just like being on my own. I’m happy on my own. I’m relaxed on my own. I like having my own space. I like seeing you once in awhile, I feel pressured to see you everyday. Don’t get me wrong, I love my friends, and I love that my friends IM me, I enjoy friends, I just don’t have the same expectations of our friendship, I can’t be social every single day. Does this make me weird? I think so. I tried changing, I tried fitting into the circle. Sometimes I just need people to stretch their circle a little and I will make my edges smoother. Nothing is ever just black or white.

For all the friends I’ve lost over the past years, I see why you gave up. Sorry about that. Bridgette, thank you for stretching your circle 😀 ♥

Hi, I am square

Body:
Skin:  DeeTaleZ Skin A.T.W. Hanna *gloss* Mixedtype – The Azz Fair
Hair: “”D!va”” Hair “Flora” 

Clothes:
Top and skirt: {dollle*} 070 Long Sleeve Loose Shirt  and {dollle*} 072 Open Zip Leather Mini Skirt  – She & Him Event
Boots: {DarkWare} Zombie Boots Pyscho Pink/Goth Black

Accessories:
Necklace: KOSH– SANCTUARY NECKLACE -inverted-
Piercings – Chest: .Pekka. Rake Piercing (Chest) Unisex
Ring L: O.M.E.N – Ring of Passion – Black
Collar: {DarkWare} Tainted -Black-+
Tattoo: PMS – Flower Abs

Never look back

Firestorm had a meeting with the users again on the 14th September and if you had not read through the transcripts yet, I’ll give you  brief overview. There has been a basic discussion around teleport issues, lag and computer issues. They talked about users not having problems the one day, but the next day they do, and then blaming the viewer, when in fact nothing on the viewer has changed. They reminded users to always think about what they did to their PC since the last logged on, e.g. install or uninstall other programs.

Also we have been told since the day we started that if we have a problem, clear cache. In fact that should be your last resort and should only be done when the actual problem is cache related. In other words, when your textures or inventory are not loading. Clearing your cache when you have lag issues will not fix the problem. In that case you need to lower your draw distance and if there are still issues, it is probably your internet. Always go for lower settings on your viewer rather than higher. It will always enhance your experience. Adjust it when you need it, but as a rule of thumb keep it low and keep your cache settings high.

They covered a wide range of questions, if you would like to read more on this, please visit the Firestorm blog 🙂

Never look Back

Today I’m wearing an outfit from the She & Him event. The top is from Dollie and the leggings from le fil casse.

Never look back

Body:
Skin: [theSkinnery] Sasha – honey
Hair: “”D!va”” Hair “Asami” 

Clothes:
Top: {dollle*} 062 Tie Side Crop Tank – White – She & Him Event
Pants: {le fil casse} printed jeggings – She & Him Event
Shoes: N-core CUORE “White” (Mesh)

Accessories:
Make-up: ::Modish:: [Ingrid Eyeshadow]-Smokey Set- She & Him Event
Piercings: <-Puncture->  Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics, <-Puncture-> Dermal Gemstones  -Hips- and Ko’oeku – Vanda Piercing Mesh
Necklace: Tonic – Stainless heart throb necklace & earrings set
Bracelets: [MANDALA] SITENNOAH_watch&bracelet_silver(wear me)

Classy Sassy Autumn

I really love the color shades of Autumn, the browns, reds, and yellows. The jacket, top and scarf are available from KC at the Soho Market. The set includes a pants, but I opted for one of my favorite pants from COCO. The sneakers are from 2:00 PM also available at the Soho Market. Make the best of this awesome time of year!

Classy Sassy Autumn

Body:
Skin: [theSkinnery] Sasha – honey
Hair: “”D!va”” Hair “Mimi”

Clothes:
Jacket, Shirt, Scarf: KC – Estate Mesh Suede and Leather Jacket set – The Soho Market
Pants: *COCO*_CargoPants_BrownGrey
Sneakers: 2:00 PM. Gwiyomi Shoes – The Soho Market

Accessories:
Make-up: ::Modish:: [Ingrid Eyeshadow]-Smokey Set- She & Him Event
Piercings: .Pekka. Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics

On my mind

I want to tell you about two things today. One, is actually just a reminder of the last week of the Atooly, Fist Pump hunt. Sweet Leonard is also part of this hunt and Luna made this cute flower necklace and ring that is totally free. So worth it. Hope you have done the hunt already!

Love Donna Flora/Fist Pump Hunt

Thennnn.. the second thing I want to talk about is a new event that starts on the 25th July and its running to the 11th August. The event is called Love Donna Flora. Squinternet Larnia is the owner of Donna Flora, and while you may not know her personally, I’m sure you will have some of her items in your inventory. Recently Cajsa Lilliehook informed people on Pluck that Squinternet has been battling breast cancer that metastisized to her bones since 2011 and was not doing well at all. She urgently needs help with nursing and other medical expenses. So some designers came together and decided to do this event in an effort to help Squinternet. The designers has done a great job and I am so honored to be part of this, even only as a blogger. I will definitely be supporting the event as well. If you want more information about Squinternet and follow her progress as well as the financial progress, please read more on a blog specially created for this, Love Donna Flora. If you feel like leaving a message of encouragement you can also leave it there.

Love Donna Flora/Fist Pump Hunt

In the next few blogs I will be showing you some of the items available at this event, but for now I would like to show you three of the six poses that will be available at the event from .mien. These are are great to show off jewelry and Connie is donating the full amount of these poses to Squinternet.

Love Donna Flora/Fist Pump Hunt

Body:
Skin: Glam Affair – Summer
Hair:  D!va – Asami 

Clothes:
Top: R.R. The Caprice Crop Top
Pants: [NV] Madworld – Bronx Pants – New

Accessories:

Rings and Necklace – ::SWEET LEONARD::  Pearl Flower Necklace and Rings
Bracelets: MANDALA – Sitennoah watch and breacelets

Poses:
.mien. – {charming} – Available at the Donna Flora Event – starting 25 July 2013