Have you noticed that before you take a road trip, people wish you safety? When we drive past a car wrecked, I always hope people were not hurt.

But thinking about that a little, is it not pain that makes us feel human? Make us feel real? We all chase happiness and safety, which is of course good and what we all deserve. Thing is, we only want highs, but how will you know you are high, when you have no lows? How can you even have high’s without lows? If you only had high’s will it not just be a flat line? This, in medical terms, means no life. I choose to live.

Talking about life, I visited the Paris sim, and it’s beautiful, elegant, with an Eiffel tower. I took this photo there wearing my little black dress, which is a new release at Ducknipple. Again this comes in 12 colors, so you can be wearing a new dress every time 🙂



Skin: Izzie’s Harlow Skin Natural

Hair: [elikatira] – Later – Rich Browns

Tattoo: .wound – Pour Vous – For You

Piercings: House of Darcy –  Nara Facial & Body Piercing

Ears: [MANDALA] steking ears

Bracelets:  [MANDALA]  LOTUS Chain Bracelets

Necklace:  Gabriel – Black Bead Necklace Group Gift

Dress: Ducknipple – Piperness Dress  New

Shoes: N-Core – CUORE ‘Black’

Hands: Slink – Mesh hands

Attention. Intention.

I read a very interesting article today around being aware of the words you use. Do you normally use words that may be perceived as negative or do you generally us positive phrases? Do you say stuff like ‘I’m trying to lose weight’? Or do you say I made the decision to lead a healthy life? ‘Trying’ implies that you may or may not fail, which gives you the option to fail. That may be perceived as negative, were making a decision to live healthier, is more definite, more positive and leaves less room for failure. This can be applied to most words we use. This just proves that words have a huge influence on mindsets. It shows the power that words can have.

I wonder if words will change my impulsive buying streak. I always said that I wouldn’t buy Lola Tango’s but yes, I have. They are still boxed in my inventory for the past 3 days, but I do have them. In my defense  I blame it on the Whore Couture Fair. I visited the fair and the clothes on offer are so amazing, I just had to get them. The outfit below is Whore Couture inspired. The top is from Spearsong and then I had a sneak preview of the Skin Fair – oh wow! The  quality is amazing. I just a to get his skin from Izzie’s – yup and a few others too! Skin fair is coming soon!

Attention. Intention.

Attention. Intention.


Hair: Magika [1] Plenty – New

Skin: Izzie’s – Harlow Skin Natural – Skin Fair (Coming soon)

Top: Spearsong – Blazer w/Tee – Whore Couture 

Shorts: [Cynful] Breeze – Black

Bracelet: [MANDALA] LOTUS Chain Bracelets&Hand ring

Piercings: <-Puncutre-> Anti-Eyebrow, Libret Basics  / Ko’oeku Vanda Piercing mesh

On the move

I had a parcel for the past year on a sim that my friend owned and lost due to some difficulties. I had a hard time saying good-bye to my home. Made so many memories there. Luckily I do have my photos. 🙂 But it still feels like I left something behind; turned over a page, that I was not expecting to do for a while. That prompted me to go out looking for a new home and I have now found one and working on making a new start. I will post some photos of my home in a future blog. Parcel hunting inspired me to dress casually and I have decided on the below:

Hair: TRUTH HAIR –  Emily

Top: [Cynful] Emmy’s Top – white

Pants: RONSEM* Mesh Hot Pants

Earrings: ::Fusion:: Charm Earrings [Silver]

Necklace: (NS) Rock’n’Rolla Heartbreak Chain

Bracelets: (r)M ¬ Bangles w/Rings

Knee and elbow tattoo: .::DMD::. Band-aids and Wounds Tattoo

Body Tattoo: Letis Tattoo :: Vega :: MM12028

Feet: Slink Womens Natural Barefeet (Mesh Rigged)

Piercings: <- Puncture -> Various