Let’s Escape!

I was lucky today… well sort off. Around 2pm today our systems at work went down and we were all sent home just after 3pm. That does mean I will have more work tomorrow, but it was a great Monday! So we escaped 😉

Body:
Skin: Lumae :: Adore – 4 – Peach // Darkling
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Hair: *~*Damselfly*~*Lottie Non-Rigged Mesh Dark Browns

Clothes:
Outfit: Apple May Designs – Kia – Black  – The Dark Style Fair 
Heels: Bishes Inc- Pumps Black

Accessories:
Chest Piercings: .Pekka. Rake Piercing (Chest) Unisex
Make Up: #adored – eye extras and #adored – sorrow shadows – The Dark Style Fair 
Face Piercings: PUNCH / Dimple Piercing / Spikes
Septum Ring: PUNCH / Cross Septum

Pose:
Zipi Poses: Who is the boss –  Indulgence BDSM & KINK Fair – Coming soon

Location:
Home Sweet Home

Black Swan

Thomas Leroy: Really? In four years every time you dance I see you obsessed getting each and every move perfectly right but I never see you lose yourself. Ever! All that discipline for what?
Nina: [whispers] I just want to be perfect.
Thomas Leroy: What?
Nina: I want to be perfect.
Thomas Leroy: [scoffs] Perfection is not just about control. It’s also about letting go. Surprise yourself so you can surprise the audience. Transcendence! Very few have it in them.

Thomas Leroy: [yelling to Nina over rehearsal music] The final act. Your final dance! You’ve tasted your dream. Touched it! Only to have it crushed. Your heart is broken. Wounded! Your life force fading. The blood drips. The black swan stole your love! There is only one way to end the pain. You’re not fearful, but filled with acceptance! And you look down at Rothbart and then at the Prince. And then yes, and the audience! And then you jump!

Body:
Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair:  Magika – Shine – New (braids transparent)

Clothes:
Top: MoDANNA [Spark Collection] Bandeau Top Black –  Whore Couture
Skirt: L!KE – My Fluffy Lil Tutu [NIGHT] XS-XL
Shoes: SLink Ashia Ballet Pointe Onyx

Accessories:
Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow – Skin Fair 2014
Piercings:  C h a r y . – Horizontal Body Horns (BLACK) – The Big Show
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics
Collar and leg chain: {PixelGeek} Chained heart collar and Leg heart chains  – Whore Couture
Tattoo: [White~Widow] Sweetwater –  Whore Couture

Remember

Never be afraid to try something new;
remember amateurs build the ark,
professionals build the Titanic
~Unknown

Someone who always inspire me to do something different to what I’m used to is Demien Sage Mortis, check out his blog here. He challenged me again and this is what I came up with.

Lola:

Body:
Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair: *booN LCA518 hair black/chocolate/purple

Clothes:
Pants and hoodie: ::Envious:: Paris – Whore Couture
Stockings:  C h a r y  Fades.
Boots: * .:: deeR ::. * MESH higher combat boots – Luck of the Irish Event

Accessories:
Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Face Tattoo: [Plastik]-Soul Ink-Soulless/Pollock
Piercings:  C h a r y . – Horizontal Body Horns (BLACK) – The Big Show
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics
Headpiece/arm bands/leg band: *{ SeVered GarDeN }* RASHIDA * FUR

Demien:

Hair – *ARGRACE* ARATA – Blacks
Crown – .Pekka. Barbed wired crown – old metal
Ears – [MANDALA]Stretched EARS-OMIMI
Nose Chains – .ARISE. Double Nose Chain / Black
Hood – *chronokit* ModsCoat02 Black
Top – DOZZE – Denim Vest (Black)
Harness – ::ZED:: MESH Black Hex, Latex & Leather Harness Laced
Pants – LQMesh Suspender CargoPants UNISEX – REDGRAVE
Boots – [Gos] GTFO Boots in Black [M]-

Chains

For to be free is not merely
to cast off one’s chains, but to
live in a way that respects
and enhances the freedom of others
~ Nelson Mandela

The Luck of the Irish Gacha event opened today and so run and go get these chains!

Body:
Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair: *X*plosion Nana Hair (Duos)

Clothes:
Top:  FnH Cassie Black Body & Bodice
Pants:  [LF] Smexy High Waist Pants Black –  Whore Couture
Shoes: . { tP } . Mainchick Platform Oynx –  Whore Couture

Accessories:
Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow – Skin Fair 2014
Piercings:  C h a r y . – Horizontal Body Horns (BLACK) – The Big Show
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics
Chains (Arms/Face/Neck/belly/leg): -DRD- luck of the irish GACHA items –  Luck of the Irish Event

Best Find

A successful man is one
who makes more money
than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one
who can find such a man.
~Tina Turner

With all the events happening currently, I hope you all are successful in finding such a man! I had the opportunity to go have a nosey at the Skin Fair, which opens 14 March 2014 and found this awesome skin from YS&YS. It takes a lot for me to change skins, but I really just fell in love with this one.

Remember to also go to the Whore Couture fair, and try your luck with at the Luck of the Irish Gacha event that starts soon.

Body:
Skin:  *YS&YS* Mina Skin – Skin Fair 2014
Hair: TRUTH HAIR Rocky –  variety

Clothes:
Top: -SSW- Tee Swag! (part of an oufit) –  Whore Couture
Pants: D-Style – Simone Pants Phat Azz – Whore Couture
Shoes: Revanche Pain & Pleasure Skully Heels Black – Whore Couture

Accessories:
Tattoos:  Corvus – Human Neck Tattoo
Nails: Beautiful Freak Nails – Black Celebration – Slink West
Gloves: S.L.A.D Lace Gloves
Make up: Boobielicious Soiree – Moondust Night Eyeshadow – Skin Fair 2014
Belly Chain:  BELLY-CHAIN DSP PLATINUM     -RYCA–
Piercings:  Puncture Anti-Eyebrow (Gemstone) Basics

Souvenirs

And scars are souvenirs you never lose
The past is never far
Did you lose yourself somewhere out there?
Did you get to be a star?
And don’t it make you sad to know that life
Is more than who we are
~Goo Goo Dolls – Name

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: [INK] Hair BPPO:: Blonde 

Clothes:
Dress: SNAP // Dolly Dress // Black – Whore Couture Exclusive
Shoes: ::DirtyMind:: Desire Platform Sandals – Black – Whore Couture

Accessories:
Tattoos: :Little Pricks: In time arm tattoo,  Corvus – Human Neck Tattoo and Tenjin – A Little Fierce Tattoo
Nails: #adored – fishnet polish hands/feet {slink avatar enhancement} – Whore Couture 
Bracelets and Armband: *MUKA* Armband Love  and *MUKA* Cuff Love – Whore Couture
Ring: O.M.E.N – Ring of Passion – Black
Eyeliner: #adored – metallic liners – Whore Couture 
Lipstick: [M]indbury – Lipstick Line – Whore Couture 

Pose:
MODEL POSES – Britt 2
MODEL POSES – Aeris 3

Choices

“We are our choices.”
~ Jean-Paul Sartre

This past month or so, I have been struggling with a choice. But today I don’t want to talk about my choice, it is still too personal, and really I do know the answer. I just don’t know if I’m a good enough person to do the right thing.

But on the topic of doing the right thing, recently (and it happened too many times before) I have seen so many choices made on Plurk and Facebook, many of them really negatively affecting others. So I’m wondering, am I, who also need to make a choice, am I in the position to judge people for those choices?

I know the saying, don’t judge someone until you have walked in their shoes. Even if you had a life from hell, does that give you the right to hack other people’s accounts? Does that give you the right to present yourself as something that you are not? Does this give you the right to hurt other people? When does it become pure spite? When am I allowed to judge?

This blog is a little all over the place, and does not really have a “take from” as Cao would have said. It’s just thoughts and a wish that people will become better at being good. And that brings me to Ghandi’s saying: Be the change you want to see in the world.

Yeah, the thing I was talking about in the first line.. was never a choice really, I always knew what to do.

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – (honey)
Hair: Magika [03] Awake

Clothes:
Bodysuit: WickedNight – Moody Suit (Black) – Like Sales Room
Tattoo: PMS – Butterfly Medley Tattoo
Shoes: !(HR 2.0)! Lace PeepToe Wedge (noir)

Accessories:
Necklaces: KOSH– SANCTUARY NECKLACE  and (Yummy) Ball Chain Necklace – Ankh
Bracelets: dl:: Emo Queen Perfect Hands
Crown: dl:: Emo Queen

Pose:
.Mien. Troubled (1)

Coming Undone

Keep holding on
When my brain’s tickin’ like a bomb
Guess the black thoughts have come Again to get me
Sweet bitter words
Unlike nothing I have heard
Sing along mocking bird
You don’t affect me

That’s right
Deliverance of my heart
Please strike
Be deliberate
~Korn

Body:
Skin:  [the Skinnery] Runa – Bare face(honey)
Hair: Magika [03] Many

Clothes:
Top / Skirt / Tights: [Fuck-Lish] Ruffly
Pants: BabyDoll. Denim Shorty / Flag

Accessories:
Necklace and Bracelet: [MANDALA]pearl rain jewely set/silver/xstreet

Pose:
Juxtapose – Jack or Jill 3.0 Hunt  – Male Path

Say something

Body:
Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair:  Magika [03] Many

Clothes:
Top: *REIGN.– The Sweatshirt- Cross – The Thrift Shop
Leggings: .PANIK. Ovale Leggins – Black  – The Big Show

Accessories:
Booty chain: .ARISE. Booty Chain / Dark Silver – The Big Show

Success

Success is not the key to happiness.
Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing, you will be
Successful
~Albert Schweitzer

A while go, when I left co-blogging on another blog, I didn’t feel like much of an success. I had to start from the bottom with this one, as I didn’t give it much attention as I was more focused on the combined blog. I was in constant competition with the other blog, until one day I realized that I was blogging for the wrong reasons. I started out the right way, but it somehow got into competition and I lost my real focus. Happiness. I can now say that it’s almost a year later, I have no idea how that other blog is doing, but I know I’m a success. Not because of fame or what other people think of me, but how I have grown and how I view my accomplishments. It’s still a huge work in progress. I still think I  get a lot of misses, but I’m happy 😀

Body:
Skin:  Glam Affair – Vera – America 07
Hair:  [elikatira] Shine – Brown 

Clothes:
Top:  Tee*fyAna Slouchy Satin Tank  and bra from Viomagic – old inventory item
Pants and Stockings:  ..::KnocKeRs::.. Hipstah Shorts –  The Hipster Fair
Shoes:  N-core Donna – new at FaMeshed

Accessories:
Necklaces:  MishMash Crucifix Necklace
Earrings: [EY:NO] Chained Cross Earrings
Ring:  ::LEONARD:: Love you
Tattoo:  PMS – I see you – includes Lola and Slink Appliers